Training Your Dog to Say “Please!”
Dogs that are in a home with boundaries, under a training plan and following this program are set up for success. Owners experience less challenging behaviors, like counter surfing a door bolting and dogs settle in faster because they know and understand what is expected of them.
Learn to Earn
- Begin by teaching your dog “Sit!”
- Once your dog knows sit, ask them to sit before they get anything that rewards them.
- Use everything your dog wants as rewards for training purposes. Have them sit before any of the following things are given to them.
- Food, treats, play time, door being opened, leash being put on, meeting new friends, toys and love from you!
- Your dog will learn to earn everything they want by politely and automatically saying “Please!” by sitting. This teaches good manners.
- If you want your leash on, you sit.
- If you want a door to open, you sit.
- If you want to be pet, you sit.
- For the fastest training, dogs should earn their meal throughout the day when you are home. Reward appropriate behaviors throughout the day. Click here to learn about the Benefits of Hand Feeding
- Carry food around with you in your pockets, a bait bag, or have it available in easily accessible containers throughout the house.
- Hand feeding part or all of their meal is a great way to get the dog learning to listen to all members of the household. This is a great job for the children in the home.
Umbilical Cord Training
- Keep your dog attached to you in the house, using a leash for the first two weeks. This prevents your dog from sneaking off and practicing bad habits. Use a kennel when you can’t watch your dog.
- While doing this “Capture” all the good things your dog does and give him a handful of his food each time you catch him choosing to lay calmly next to you or sitting.
- click here to learn how reward markers and capturing works!
Nothing in Life is Free
- This training technique is very similar to the learn to earn. The difference is that we will extend the idea to many commands.
- After you dog has learned a few basic commands, these become behaviors that earn anything important.
- This becomes a gentle reminder to your dog that we do things on your terms.
- We may be playing and having fun, but each time you will offer an appropriate behavior to continue that play.
- Define the rules for your dog and be consistent! Make sure the whole family is on the same page or your dog might become confused.
- For example, does your dog sit before walking through every door way?
- Does “down” mean lay down or don’t jump? If your family isn’t on the same page your dog will surely be confused.
- To busy to hand feed? Use a Kong Wobbler instead of a food bowl. This can be picked up from any pet supply store and it should be noted this is different than a regular rubber kong.
Additional Tips and Tricks
Spend time teaching and training your dog to dog basic skills like “Watch” (eye contact on cue), “leave it” and stay during this time. Click here to learn how to teach leave it
Here is how we teach watch: https://youtu.be/Z4bUBHzPDkM
- Give your dog a week before introducing your dog to dogs outside of the home. Before going to the dog park do playdates with your friend’s dogs.
- Don’t force a scared dog into a kennel, instead use food or toys to convince them it’s fun and safe.
- Before Behavior Modification Starts: Prepping your dog to learn